I try very hard to stay away from the bad boys, but regularly fall back into the their trap when my guard is down. Can these men ever be tamed, or am I just deluding myself?

Hi Sim.. :waves:

Ok this is where we get all self opinionated n stuff, but hell I'm going to go ahead & do it anyway :lol:

Can they be tamed.. not a chance in hell.. they will be whatever they will be, as they say you can't change anyone, well it comes to the inner wild child on the loose, well they have to decide to calm down & grow up <in some cases> but self delusion has been a pretty close friend of mine through my life, so I feel your pain hun.

Seriously, why would you want to tame them?

If it's the bad boys you find yourself attracted to in the first place, surely that's the whole point of the experience. You are after the wild, slightly rough around the edges, holes in jeans type. Why date one, then attempt to make them into some white collar guy. It doesn't work.

Bottom line, if you want the domesticated male, go in search of one that has already been house broken pmsl.

Ah hello Benj and Sarah. Would you stop posting in the ladies forum and actually come out and play on a thread I am technically allowed to be in?

Getting awful lonely out here talking to myself ladies.

Frank!

I'm shock and horrified

Women only!

men can be trained, just like dogs... they respond to sex... bascially decide what you want to train them to do / be, and then you can start a reward process.

As they behave the way you want them to, you reward with a sexual favour, you don't advise them why... and whne they drift into bad behaviour you withhold sex and sexual favours, their behaviour modes, like a dog, will work out how to get what they want, "sex and sexual favours", and their behaviour will alter as you had planned... simple as that...

except of course the BJs you have to do to get thei training done!

it would surely be easier to just ignore men, and go for a sexy lady! x

I admit I do like my men semi domesticated, not all bare chested and feral. Still a bit of a sucker for the old fashioned door opening for the lady type stuff that seemed to die out with the dark ages.

One thing I have learnt though through these very boards, is that the image I had in my mind of what a tatted out long haired guy should be like was completely and utterly incorrect. Still prefer my men more mild than wild but having taken the time to get to know the likes of Frank, Dave and crew, I'd never be foolish enough to judge someone simply by the way they look ever again.