Can it ever be too big? How would you tackle a guy standing there with a weapon of mass destruction in front of you?

Yes it can be, even painfully so. But if you love them, you've got to find a way around the problem yes?

yes can be too big! in my case I can take so much, and 1 case .. yes a big black guy! and I mean BIG, i had to discuss with him, and he took care, but in way nice to be full .. so to speak....

So I'm assuming if you are in bed naked with someone, unless it is some token one night stand, you actually give a rats about the feelings for the other person yes? I presume no-one here would be so tactless as to burst out laughing if the object of their affections ripped it all off and you were left reaching for a magnifying glass. I think the same level of tact should be used in the opposite scenario.

There are ways around it; either taking control of the situation by being on top and controlling the depth, or simply by taking it carefully until you work out what positions bring pleasure to the both of you.

If he's worth being in bed with in the first place, he's worth investing some time finding a way around any issues surely.

Absolutely @ Benj!

I want to please my partner above all else & all obstacles can be overcome with a little imagination, consideration, understanding & thought, my passion for my partner wouldn't diminish in the slightest due to superficial issues like appendage size.

Overly large would scare the crap out of me, but as a few of the ladies already said, if I loved the guy I would do whatever I could to make the situation workable.

i agree with sunnyangel, and believe me first few times thought I would be split open, even average size suddenly looked TOO BIG.... but have coped.... and if too big and I worry.. (and I mean girth, as I have limitations!!) I do alert the guy, and as sunny stated, we work it out....

It's all about compromise.

Where there's a will, there's a way

Having had kids and being stretched to within an inch of my life, bigger is ALWAYS better!!!!

I'd be absolutely terrified if faced with anything larger than say 7 inches, but if I cared about the guy I'd damn well grit my teeth and hold on for dear life if necessary.

lmfao reading maxines comment.... and i do so agree with lacy, on being terrified .... and they (cocks) seem so much bigger when close up! and , especially die to my past, I do fear not being able to cope..... amazing how things do cope and adapt.. thankfully