I'm the first to admit I was a shocker during my late 20's and 30's. Kind of let playing in a band go to my head. It was on offer so I took it I suppose. But I'll never forget someone very close to me saying that the difference between good sex, great sex and mindblowing sex was the emotions involved and although it took a long time to seep in I tend to agree with that now.

Anyone can have great sex but if you don't give a rats that's as good as it gets.

Well done Dave. It's rare men can be honest about there inflated ego's, so kudo's to you darlin'.

I agree for my own reasons to the point you made there though. I was one fucked up little puppy in my youth, I had no direction where it came to men & the smorgesboard set in front of me, I seemed to date every loser within a 50km radius, but nowadays I have no interest in wasting my time so knock dates back without a second thought. :look people our little girl grew up!:

All I want now is 'everything' I have male friends in my life & feel well balanced, so the all of nothing rule applies to sex.

There is someone with a healthy sexual appetite, and then there are people who are easy. Notice I said people, and didn't stipulate a gender.

Got no problem with a woman who enjoys being sexually active and has a healthy sex drive but I don't want to be with someone who isn't particular about who she jumps into bed with. Experience is a wonderful thing. Just as long as she hasn't experienced it with 100+ men before me.