http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/-t1.htm The good, the bad and everything inbetween. Fri, 23 Oct 2009 22:54:43 GMT 10 http://i43.servimg.com/u/f43/12/13/44/46/bass_f11.jpg http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/-t1.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/can-a-relationship-survive-infidelity-t255.htm Benj

I have a bad habit of forgiving people time after time for things they do, but with regards to this particular issue I've always been rather harsh in the way I handle it.]]> Relationship angst Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:24:50 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/can-a-relationship-survive-infidelity-t255.htm#3700 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/can-a-relationship-survive-infidelity-t255.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/social-pressure-to-get-married-do-you-feel-it-t290.htm Maxine
Anyone else feel the pressure to conform? What's wrong with the old saying "if it ain't broke, don't fix it"?]]> Relationship angst Fri, 23 Oct 2009 22:54:43 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/social-pressure-to-get-married-do-you-feel-it-t290.htm#4057 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/social-pressure-to-get-married-do-you-feel-it-t290.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/teaching-someone-t263.htm Admin At our 'ahem' advanced ages, would you bothering to attempt to teach someone if they sucked in bed, grit your teeth and bare it, or cut your losses and run? Relationship angst Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:37:48 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/teaching-someone-t263.htm#3785 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/teaching-someone-t263.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/double-standards-t11.htm Mish68 As a single woman who enjoys the company of men, I was just wondering why we as females still accept the dreaded double standard that is associated with woman who dare to embrace their sexuality. Why is it that in a world that has so many diverse technologies and idiologies, that the thought of a woman acting like, dare I say it, a man, brings her so swiftly under the microscope, and her morals immediately called into play. Surely in this so called world of equality, what's good for ... Relationship angst Mon, 17 Mar 2008 11:59:46 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/double-standards-t11.htm#46 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/double-standards-t11.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/open-relationships-t172.htm Admin Anyone else noticed how many people have 'in an open relationship' tattooed all across their facebook profile? If I'm with someone I'm only playing with them, or on a rare occasion tag teaming with them if we both agree to let another person into our bed. This open relationship, screw whoever whenever confuses the crap out of me. Perhaps I'm just got a massive double standard chip sitting on my shoulder. Perhaps sleeping with someone else when your other half is actively involved is on ... Relationship angst Mon, 25 May 2009 00:20:35 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/open-relationships-t172.htm#2586 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/open-relationships-t172.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/could-you-stay-in-a-sexless-relationship-t245.htm Maxine If everything else was perfect, if they were someone you trusted and could confide in, if the only problem was in the bedroom. Could you stay with them? Relationship angst Thu, 04 Jun 2009 13:00:26 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/could-you-stay-in-a-sexless-relationship-t245.htm#3527 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/could-you-stay-in-a-sexless-relationship-t245.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/sex-with-mates-t264.htm Admin A good idea, or something that should be completely out of bounds? Relationship angst Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:38:49 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/sex-with-mates-t264.htm#3786 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/sex-with-mates-t264.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-to-you-t214.htm Ant
The actual physical act?

Daydreaming about someone else?

Chatting online?

Checking a hot member of the other sex out?]]> Relationship angst Sun, 31 May 2009 04:31:01 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-to-you-t214.htm#3138 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-to-you-t214.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/affairs-and-or-cheating-t223.htm Sunnyangel Have you? Would you? Has it been done to you? Relationship angst Mon, 01 Jun 2009 05:05:17 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/affairs-and-or-cheating-t223.htm#3227 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/affairs-and-or-cheating-t223.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-past-t236.htm Admin Does what someone has done in the past, whether it be their profession or perhaps something they did when they were young and crazy influence how you look at them as a potential friend or partner? Relationship angst Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:03:06 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-past-t236.htm#3385 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-past-t236.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/are-women-hardwired-to-reject-relationships-t206.htm Benj I often sit here and wonder if I'm overly picky, and expect too much from a relationship. I tell myself that its just me refusing to settle for second best, but I've sat back and watched female friends purposely destroy relationships because of some minor issue, and I'm starting to wonder if its some sort of defence mechanism women automatically trigger when they feel out of their depth emotionally. Do women go into relationships with a defeatist attitude already set firmly in place, that ... Relationship angst Sat, 30 May 2009 13:08:46 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/are-women-hardwired-to-reject-relationships-t206.htm#3056 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/are-women-hardwired-to-reject-relationships-t206.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-no-escaping-the-ex-t210.htm Sim I understand that some people manage to maintain close friendships once the relationship is over. Have no trouble with that. What does set my wheels spinning is those exs who refuse to just keel over and die quietly. You know the ones who still ring up if their tyre goes flat or if they need advice on men or if they need a booty call. Any inventive ideas how to deal with and rid your life of this plague? Relationship angst Sun, 31 May 2009 01:26:58 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-no-escaping-the-ex-t210.htm#3116 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-no-escaping-the-ex-t210.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-internet-and-relationships-t189.htm Admin
Can it really work?]]> Relationship angst Thu, 28 May 2009 07:08:06 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-internet-and-relationships-t189.htm#2854 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-internet-and-relationships-t189.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/being-friends-with-the-ex-normal-or-not-t163.htm Benj
Perhaps I've just been blesses to have mainly amicable breakups. At the end of the day, even if the romance failed, they still have the wonderful qualities that drew you to them in the first place surely?]]> Relationship angst Sun, 24 May 2009 06:14:31 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/being-friends-with-the-ex-normal-or-not-t163.htm#2543 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/being-friends-with-the-ex-normal-or-not-t163.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/why-do-men-always-need-to-make-the-first-move-t165.htm Ant Would be nice for a woman to have enough confidence to make the first move for a chance. And by that I don't mean some drunken groupie throwing themself at me and bouncing off the fretboard. Is it just a confidence thing or is it still considered unacceptable for women to do it? Relationship angst Sun, 24 May 2009 06:46:40 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/why-do-men-always-need-to-make-the-first-move-t165.htm#2553 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/why-do-men-always-need-to-make-the-first-move-t165.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/background-music-t150.htm Admin Question for the ladies: what do women have against music being played in the background during an intimate moment? Ok so I can understand you don't want the tv blaring and I get alot of women don't like 'dirty talk' cause it reminds them of a bad porno film . But what's wrong with some music in the background to get you going? Relationship angst Tue, 09 Dec 2008 12:16:23 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/background-music-t150.htm#2309 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/background-music-t150.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/forgive-me-father-for-i-have-sinned-t152.htm Admin So no-ones a saint. What's something you have done in a relationship that you would give anything to take back and change. Relationship angst Tue, 09 Dec 2008 12:35:59 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/forgive-me-father-for-i-have-sinned-t152.htm#2319 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/forgive-me-father-for-i-have-sinned-t152.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/well-you-did-leave-us-all-alone-now-suffer-the-consequences-t88.htm Benj Flakey fantasies ... yes you heard me. Following on from the Village People thread (oh gawd did I really post that? Boredom is no excuse!), we have decided to take a trip down memory lane (without you obviously) and pay homage to those guys who have set our hearts aflutter over the years. Relationship angst Fri, 04 Apr 2008 11:09:10 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/well-you-did-leave-us-all-alone-now-suffer-the-consequences-t88.htm#1341 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/well-you-did-leave-us-all-alone-now-suffer-the-consequences-t88.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/bad-first-date-impressions-t138.htm Mish68 What's the worst thing someone has ever done on a first date that had you running for the hills before the entree was even finished? Relationship angst Tue, 15 Apr 2008 03:00:36 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/bad-first-date-impressions-t138.htm#2191 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/bad-first-date-impressions-t138.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/for-those-who-believe-in-astrology-t132.htm Sulliedangel
Yes, I'm filling in time before work lol.

I can't believe women (or men for that matter) actually go up to someone and ask them their sign? Or is that just something that only happens in movies ......... the really bad ones lol]]> Relationship angst Mon, 14 Apr 2008 01:23:52 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/for-those-who-believe-in-astrology-t132.htm#2104 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/for-those-who-believe-in-astrology-t132.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/resolving-a-crush-t95.htm Maxine ]]> Relationship angst Sun, 06 Apr 2008 03:01:49 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/resolving-a-crush-t95.htm#1409 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/resolving-a-crush-t95.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/interacial-dating-t91.htm Maxine With Melbourne having such a diverse multi cultural community, would you have trouble dating someone outside your own race? Relationship angst Sun, 06 Apr 2008 02:52:59 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/interacial-dating-t91.htm#1405 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/interacial-dating-t91.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/how-lenient-are-you-t42.htm Maxine in terms of age difference? Do you have strict guidelines and only date people say a couple of years older or young? Can vast age differences work? Would you rather date younger or older than yourself? Relationship angst Thu, 20 Mar 2008 10:41:29 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/how-lenient-are-you-t42.htm#474 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/how-lenient-are-you-t42.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-s-the-deal-breaker-for-you-t108.htm Mish68
Smoking? Other entanglements? Or do you simply fall out of lust?

And...........Have you ever tried to continue, despite the object of your affections flaws]]> Relationship angst Tue, 08 Apr 2008 05:23:21 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-s-the-deal-breaker-for-you-t108.htm#1707 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/what-s-the-deal-breaker-for-you-t108.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-shaving-thread-t83.htm Admin
Going to see if this poll button works lol.]]> Relationship angst Fri, 04 Apr 2008 00:09:40 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-shaving-thread-t83.htm#1237 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/the-shaving-thread-t83.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/punishments-for-cheating-t100.htm Sulliedangel How about the tried and true cutting of his clothes into little bits and throwing them all over the front yard. Relationship angst Mon, 07 Apr 2008 00:24:48 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/punishments-for-cheating-t100.htm#1587 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/punishments-for-cheating-t100.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/dear-abbey-opps-i-mean-luka-t80.htm Benj
So I hereby declare this to be the 'Dear Luka' thread, where we, the people, can come to have our questions answered by the exhalted one.]]> Relationship angst Thu, 03 Apr 2008 13:17:01 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/dear-abbey-opps-i-mean-luka-t80.htm#1160 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/dear-abbey-opps-i-mean-luka-t80.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/relationships-neverending-search-for-that-elusive-perfect-mate-t18.htm rockaholic I've had to do some soul searching lately.. I've met a guy who seemed compatible with me *mind you I didn't know I was looking!* he takes a strong stand on an issue that relates to me. Basically I'm a drinker, not a heavy drinker, but a drinker to be sure. I enjoy unwinding with a few glasses of wine when I feel like it. The second time we chated, I was into my 2nd drink, he expressed just how unacceptable this way *ok red neon light going off, right?* but I hushed it away, saying ... Relationship angst Tue, 18 Mar 2008 10:23:34 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/relationships-neverending-search-for-that-elusive-perfect-mate-t18.htm#152 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/relationships-neverending-search-for-that-elusive-perfect-mate-t18.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/i-d-do-anything-for-love-t26.htm Mish68
What things would you DEFINATELY NOT do for your partner within a commited relationship?]]> Relationship angst Tue, 18 Mar 2008 23:00:17 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/i-d-do-anything-for-love-t26.htm#256 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/i-d-do-anything-for-love-t26.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/mauling-out-of-glove-t76.htm psychopractor
How do you leave? I mean surely the appropriate authorities will be notified. What if you blunder your moon-walk out the back door and the chimp takes a swipe at you?]]> Relationship angst Thu, 03 Apr 2008 08:17:40 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/mauling-out-of-glove-t76.htm#1077 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/mauling-out-of-glove-t76.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/does-being-hurt-mean-your-holding-a-grudge-t38.htm rockaholic
Please share your experiences & thoughts in this thread..]]> Relationship angst Thu, 20 Mar 2008 04:46:25 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/does-being-hurt-mean-your-holding-a-grudge-t38.htm#439 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/does-being-hurt-mean-your-holding-a-grudge-t38.htm http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/falling-out-of-love-t41.htm Maxine
How do you grieve? And in my case how do you help a friend grieve without crossing the line and interferring? Do you honor the process, and eventually manage to get to the stage where your losses no longer hurt you?

Are able to move forward with a totally open heart, or do you get emotionally stuck in one part of the cycle?]]> Relationship angst Thu, 20 Mar 2008 10:37:51 GMT http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/falling-out-of-love-t41.htm#473 http://kaos.forumandco.com/relationship-angst-f24/falling-out-of-love-t41.htm