Home much info do you really want

Subject: Home much info do you really want Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:36 pm

Been slack of late; time to get the threads rolling again.

How much info do you really want to hear when starting a new relationship? Is it best to hear it all or keep some mystery about it; even if you ask how many previous partners do you really want to hear the answer?

My curiousity gets the better of me alot I admit, then wish like hell I'd never asked in the first place.
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Subject: Re: Home much info do you really want Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:42 pm

I'm the same Luka. I tend to be curious, then if I hear more than what I was expecting curse myself for digging into their past in the first place. A general over view is fine, but I think the inner most details of past relationships should stay between the two people involved.
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Subject: Re: Home much info do you really want Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:21 pm

Yep a general over view is good, and unless they've been with some terribly diseased person (which I would very much like to know before things get to the point of gettin' naked) then who ever is in their past is just that, in the past.
You also have to find out early if and just how psychotic they are. I don't want my tires slashed or my house burned down because I didn't call enough times in one day.

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I don't need nor want to hear all the details. The past is past after all. However that being said, if she's harbouring a big secret I'd rather find out sooner rather than later if you get my drift.
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