Someone, anyone who actually enjoys it, please explain.

You're asking the wrong person hun ... not my favourite past time I'm afraid. I've learnt to appreciate that my feelings on the topic are tainted by a less than joyful experience, and I'll admit that I'm getting much better at relaxing and enjoying the experience, but give me a choice and I'll think of another suitable activity to bring smiles to both our faces.

So much porn etc is directed towards the activity, that I feared I was missing out on something. Just to be fair, be interested in mens opinions too, whether it be on anal sex with a girl, with another guy (yeah right like any of you would answer that), or with a girl and a toy.

Come on guys; bored here!

As a bloke, I think I am on the outer when I say its not my thing, either doing it, or having it done to me. Just my own personal choice.

well, interesting topic...

As some may have worked out, I obviously went thru' a "she-male" phase, was in between (pre op) for 2 yrs. And due to need to get cash for forthcoming ops etc, I did partake in a few porn shots..... and yes due to it being porn, and due to obvious lack of any other option, anal was the thing....

not being into men at the time, at all, it was a little scary at first... and did not enjoy the act itself, yes it helped me believe I was the female in the act, but not a pleasurable thing. Never wanted to do it with women as a bloke either.

Since op I still find some men still suggest the option... but for me no pleasure is gained, yes it may be tighter for the guy I guess? but I just don't get it...

I don't find it a turn on at all, the complete opposite actually. Aside from the pain issue, I don't like the lack of eye contact. If men were more willing to bend over and let me insert things into their rectum, then perhaps I too might be more willing to oblige

I have experience both giving & receiving.. I agree with all of your opinions on the pleasure in receiving though.. there simply wasn't any, but.. I don't mind pleasing the guy if he requests it & a few have actually, I enjoyed their pleasure alot more than I think I could on the receiving end :chuckle:

Hey it's just another facet to explore, I have no problems performing anal on a guy whatsoever. <shrug> apparently it's where their joy spot is & I have given men an orgasm through that 'route' (excuse the pun lol)

Well....I'm open minded....So Let's just say i'll try almost anything once.....and again if i like it! ... I've tried both....Both get thumbs up! (Literally )

Was going to comment, but can't get past Lacy's 'rectum' remark. Laughing so much its physically hurting.

Oh Hi Frank hehe

Not deleting your posts tonight Sarah pmsl

How you travelling hun

There's still time

Big pass lol

Got no problem with either. It's not something that I can't live without though so if she's not into it, doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Joe's a fan, I am not, but we manage to find a compromise. And isn't that what relationships are all about?